I love to be tied up. Because you know what I love about being tied up? The restraint. Plus, I love the body awareness that being tied up gives me — every twitch of my muscles resonating across the web of ropes across my body, so the tautness in my arms brings some slack to my bound legs, a continual interplay of physics that yanks out of my usual thoughtstream and anchors me to the sensation of me as a purely physical being. The rope discussions that permeate up to my circles are centered around the perfect knots, the symmetry of ropes, the pristine nature of having everything aligned along a beautiful body. Rope looks like a hierarchy.
Why does my girlfriend only achieve orgasm when tied up?
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Dear Carole, Why does my girlfriend enjoy being tied up? Sex always involves rope, handcuffs or restraints of some sort, and often uniforms. She is anything but submissive outside the bedroom, but seems unable to achieve orgasm without being restrained in some way. When we have "vanilla" sex she enjoys it, but when tied she always has multiple orgasms.
Meet The Londoners With A Fetish For Being Tied Up
When you ask people what they enjoy about tied up sex, you will get a wide variety of answers and a few awkward jokes. You will find that most binding practitioners are motivated largely by their partners pleasure. To really understand tied up sex, you first have to tunderstand what makes a person want to be bound. I think that in many cases it is related to the contrast with daily life.
Ankle cuffs. You name it, I love it. Only use it on special occasions.